This isn’t gonna be some lighthearted post inspiring you to go make sales. This post is about to be me yelling at you to get your shit together as a grown-ass-adult.
Every day I login to social media and I see some crybaby bitching about politics, gun control, a virus, Bill Gates, Russia, Trump. Pelosi or something else they can’t control.
Look, I get it. Grant Cardone recently proved that negativity spreads faster than positivity, and it does, but that doesn’t make it a good thing. It means most of you mufuggers are fundamentally wired wrong mentally.
If you flock to bad news more than good news, you have a trash mindset. For real.
In a world full of good stuff happening daily, the fact that you find shit to complain and bitch about blows my mind.
During the pandemic of 2020 I saw so many motivational speakers lose their minds which also lost respect of those who follow them. Yes, they may have got more engagement on their posts, but what they don’t realize is that attracting negative people only leads to being charged up negatively all day every day.
How do I know this?
I lived it. Whether anyone will admit it or not, I’m the OG badboy online. When I started cussing online and saying a bunch of tough guy negative shit, the year was 2010. People told me I was breaking Facebook rules by posting the word “fuck” online. They talked shit in the comments daily.
The gurus all blasted me and called me an outcast and loser with a foul mouth. Then, they started to see how much engagement I got and followed suit like the sheep they are.
I took a play out of the rap game playbook. I knew what I was doing all along, they just weren’t privy to the life and culture I had been a part of for 15 years at that time. The shit I said pissed them off, made them uncomfortable and solicited engagement from them.
I started talking about Trump before it was the “cool” thing to do. I took up for him and shamed the other side. Once again the sheep attacked me and blasted me. Then once again, they saw how much engagement I got and started following what I did even though they hated on me at first.
For example when I started with the negativity online Grant Cardone said I was crazy and that he would never cuss online. Less than 2 years later he’s acting just like me. Cussing, talking like a tough guy and all that.
I’m telling you it got me a lot of attention and engagements. Hardcore Closer blew up and the page went from 15,000 likes to 200,000 likes in less than a year.
But then it happened….
I got fugging exhausted. I couldn’t deal with the negativity any more. I got tired of bitching and people bitching with and and me daily. So one day I just stopped. I remember people making fun of me, calling me “Pastor Positive Stewman” but I took all the ridicule and kept moving toward the positive.
The negative crowd eventually found another thread to follow and bitch on. My Hardcore Closer page lost about 25,000 fans and business slowed down for about 6 months.
Then, after a while, I started attracting the winners. The people who had no time or desire to bitch and moan in the comments all day. They showed up one by one. Then after a period of time they started buying from me.
It felt good because I was selling to people who DESERVED to have a great life and make more money. They inspired people instead of infuriating them. The positivity spread further and faster than any of the negative shit I had ever posted.
The quality of people I started working with was top notch and has been since then. My attitude changed and after a while I ignored the negative more and more. I refused to engage or even follow someone who constantly bitched and complained about life. I got focused on those who wanted solutions not sympathy for losing.
I shut the fuck up with my problems and started selling solutions and my life has never been better. I’m telling you that if you change your mindset it won’t happen overnight but people will come to you that you WANT to help and you want to work with.
My life has never been better and I wouldn’t go back to firing people up by triggering them for all the money in the world. I’d rather have 5 clients I inspire than 5M that are constantly triggered and pissed off. My mission in life changed and therefore my entire life changed too.
It’s rare that someone says some dickish shit on my posts and when they do, I don’t argue, I just block them and move on. I got no time for negativity.
I say all that to say this: Stop bitching and moaning and start inspiring and selling to people who deserve to be sold to. It’s a game changer.